Dating with Purpose: Why Intentionality Wins in Today’s Culture

Let’s be honest: modern dating often feels like a game of who can care less. Between ghosting, commitment-phobia, and apps built for infinite options, it’s easy to get discouraged if you’re someone looking for something real. But here’s the good news—there’s a growing movement of people who are over the games. And many of them? They’re young conservatives.

I see it every day at DateRightStuff. The most meaningful connections aren’t formed by chance; they’re built with intention. That’s the secret. And it’s more powerful than ever in a culture that tells us not to take anything (or anyone) seriously.

Intentional dating means showing up with clarity. It means knowing what you’re looking for and being honest about it. For some, that’s marriage and a family. For others, it’s companionship rooted in shared values. But in every case, it’s about moving with purpose instead of passively hoping someone magically fits the puzzle.

If that sounds old-fashioned, so be it. I think it sounds refreshing. In a sea of swipe fatigue and half-hearted conversations, intentionality stands out. It’s not just about settling down—it’s about leveling up. Emotionally. Spiritually. Relationally.

At DateRightStuff, we created a space for this kind of dating. A space where you don’t have to hide your beliefs, downplay your future plans, or pretend you’re not looking for something meaningful. Because the truth is, intentional dating isn’t just for traditionalists anymore—it’s for anyone tired of wasting time.

So if you're one of the few who still thinks love should have a purpose, welcome. You're not alone. You're just early to the next wave.